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So I’ve been on whispers4you for over a month and nothing… decided to just get bumble and all the women look like super models so I’m basically saying to myself oh my fucking god before every swipe, Ran out of swipe lmao I felt like I was having a mild heart attack when I was setting it up and for the first few swipes. I know it every unlikely any will message me but even if they did what do I say? Hey I’ve been alone with myself for 10 years avoiding people lol they all have vast picture of adventure and hanging out with group of other good looking people. I look at them and they all look so grownup and confident and I’m like the dude out of Edward scissor hands lmao Im in my 30s and i dunno what to do, it all f*cked.

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  • I invest as much time in it as I feel like, or not.  My openers tend to be simple, hello, hows your day going, or maybe mention something in their profile.  Ice breaker level. 

    I have some rules as well.  If you have an empty profile, whats to say you won't show the same level of enthusiasm for a relationship?  If you have one or zero photos, you probably have self image issues.  If you are always single in the photos are you billy no mates or adverse to playing with others.  If you have too many photos are you too self absorbed/vane.  Any of those I would Pass on.  Too much make up is another one I can't stand.  I don't want a princess or supermodel, because it would be to much hard work.  I just want someone ND but relatively normal ND.  A fellow Aspy would be cool.  High functioning and verbal.

    My suggestion is make a nice profile.  2-3 paragraphs, 3-4 photos, if they have questions for helping with matches, answer about 20-30 of them, don't link any social media accounts to it and then wait for a week.  Places like POF delete profiles if you are too active, too quickly.  Cupid takes time to generate good matches.  I don't use the others, so YMMV.

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  • I invest as much time in it as I feel like, or not.  My openers tend to be simple, hello, hows your day going, or maybe mention something in their profile.  Ice breaker level. 

    I have some rules as well.  If you have an empty profile, whats to say you won't show the same level of enthusiasm for a relationship?  If you have one or zero photos, you probably have self image issues.  If you are always single in the photos are you billy no mates or adverse to playing with others.  If you have too many photos are you too self absorbed/vane.  Any of those I would Pass on.  Too much make up is another one I can't stand.  I don't want a princess or supermodel, because it would be to much hard work.  I just want someone ND but relatively normal ND.  A fellow Aspy would be cool.  High functioning and verbal.

    My suggestion is make a nice profile.  2-3 paragraphs, 3-4 photos, if they have questions for helping with matches, answer about 20-30 of them, don't link any social media accounts to it and then wait for a week.  Places like POF delete profiles if you are too active, too quickly.  Cupid takes time to generate good matches.  I don't use the others, so YMMV.

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