Dating site

So I’ve been on whispers4you for over a month and nothing… decided to just get bumble and all the women look like super models so I’m basically saying to myself oh my fucking god before every swipe, Ran out of swipe lmao I felt like I was having a mild heart attack when I was setting it up and for the first few swipes. I know it every unlikely any will message me but even if they did what do I say? Hey I’ve been alone with myself for 10 years avoiding people lol they all have vast picture of adventure and hanging out with group of other good looking people. I look at them and they all look so grownup and confident and I’m like the dude out of Edward scissor hands lmao Im in my 30s and i dunno what to do, it all f*cked.

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  • My wife and I met on a dating website. One of the questions on my profile was asking about the last book I read and she told me a while later that one of the reasons I made the cut was because unlike most I'd actually read a book recently. 

    My point is that there's someone out there for everyone, some of us just need to look a bit harder. We're not like many of the others on those apps or sites - we are much more specific about what we want and need, and that rules a lot of potential partners out. We're also a little different to what many people are looking for in us and that rules some more out. I've never heard of the sites you mentioned but I'd used a couple of the free/cheap ones without any success but when I paid for one of the more well known ones I did meet my wife.

    I'll quote Daniel Johnston, partly because it's relevant, partly 'cause it's a beautiful song (True love will find you in the end):

    True love will find you in the end
    You'll find out just who was your friend
    Don't be sad, I know you will
    But don't give up until
    True love will find you in the end
    This is a promise with a catch
    Only if you're looking can it find you
    'Cause true love is searching too
    But how can it recognize you
    If you don't step out into the light, the light
    Don't be sad I know you will
    Don't give up until
    True love will find you in the end
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  • My wife and I met on a dating website. One of the questions on my profile was asking about the last book I read and she told me a while later that one of the reasons I made the cut was because unlike most I'd actually read a book recently. 

    My point is that there's someone out there for everyone, some of us just need to look a bit harder. We're not like many of the others on those apps or sites - we are much more specific about what we want and need, and that rules a lot of potential partners out. We're also a little different to what many people are looking for in us and that rules some more out. I've never heard of the sites you mentioned but I'd used a couple of the free/cheap ones without any success but when I paid for one of the more well known ones I did meet my wife.

    I'll quote Daniel Johnston, partly because it's relevant, partly 'cause it's a beautiful song (True love will find you in the end):

    True love will find you in the end
    You'll find out just who was your friend
    Don't be sad, I know you will
    But don't give up until
    True love will find you in the end
    This is a promise with a catch
    Only if you're looking can it find you
    'Cause true love is searching too
    But how can it recognize you
    If you don't step out into the light, the light
    Don't be sad I know you will
    Don't give up until
    True love will find you in the end
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