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So I’ve been on whispers4you for over a month and nothing… decided to just get bumble and all the women look like super models so I’m basically saying to myself oh my fucking god before every swipe, Ran out of swipe lmao I felt like I was having a mild heart attack when I was setting it up and for the first few swipes. I know it every unlikely any will message me but even if they did what do I say? Hey I’ve been alone with myself for 10 years avoiding people lol they all have vast picture of adventure and hanging out with group of other good looking people. I look at them and they all look so grownup and confident and I’m like the dude out of Edward scissor hands lmao Im in my 30s and i dunno what to do, it all f*cked.

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  • You shouldn’t judge. I reckon at least 75% of the people on dating apps are introverted in some way and find it hard to mix and meet people. The rest are just looking for something casual, which is fine too.

    I would swipe on anyone you like the look of. You can’t tell what they’re like until you start messaging them. If you aren’t comfortable being with someone who looks very socially active, then perhaps don’t swipe on them.

    As what to say, just ask questions. You’ll soon know if they are worth getting to know.

    For example, I dared to swipe on 2 men I found attractive. One of them sent a message saying ‘hottie’, and asked for my WhatsApp after 2 texts. I declined, and he unmatched me lol.

    The other one said hello, I’m (name), pleased to meet you. How is your day going. That was a normal response, and I was happy to continue chatting.

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  • You shouldn’t judge. I reckon at least 75% of the people on dating apps are introverted in some way and find it hard to mix and meet people. The rest are just looking for something casual, which is fine too.

    I would swipe on anyone you like the look of. You can’t tell what they’re like until you start messaging them. If you aren’t comfortable being with someone who looks very socially active, then perhaps don’t swipe on them.

    As what to say, just ask questions. You’ll soon know if they are worth getting to know.

    For example, I dared to swipe on 2 men I found attractive. One of them sent a message saying ‘hottie’, and asked for my WhatsApp after 2 texts. I declined, and he unmatched me lol.

    The other one said hello, I’m (name), pleased to meet you. How is your day going. That was a normal response, and I was happy to continue chatting.

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