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Feeling Embarrassed When Compared to Others

Jasmine

I'm 26 and started a new job in November which is a job share, I have half an hour of cross over time with my counterpart on a Friday and I always end up feeling ashamed seeing how well she interacts with others and how well liked she is, knowing that I don't chat to the same level she does or laugh along with people. Does anyone else have have anxiety while they watch others interact because they wish they knew the right things to say? 

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  • ah always the case and you always feel they love them more and favour them more.... but then you overhear them one time speaking badly about them behind their backs and they dont really like them. the chatty sociable one that everyone seems to love, no one actually loves them, they only go along with it as a response. was one like that where i work, soon as he leaves everyones like, damn he never shuts up, and saying he gives them a headache and so on lol so the high sociable ones are also failures but other people are not honest to their face about it.

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  • ah always the case and you always feel they love them more and favour them more.... but then you overhear them one time speaking badly about them behind their backs and they dont really like them. the chatty sociable one that everyone seems to love, no one actually loves them, they only go along with it as a response. was one like that where i work, soon as he leaves everyones like, damn he never shuts up, and saying he gives them a headache and so on lol so the high sociable ones are also failures but other people are not honest to their face about it.

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