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Father who I struggling with his sons autism.

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I am called M

My son is being assessed for ASD and I am struggling to cope with how to look after him. I bought a book but it barely scratched the surface and left me more confused.

I really struggle with him and it I feel like a rubbish dad because I dont do much with him as I dont know what to do.

This has caused my marriage to his mum to fall apart and I need help desperately.

Does anyone know any resources or help in the greater Manchester area please?

Thanks in advance

M

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  • Hi M,

    Sorry to hear what a difficult time you are having. I'm afraid I can't help in terms of resources and it's difficult to understand exactly what you're going through without the specifics but I do know that having an Autistic child is an ongoing struggle. I know what it's like to sit there wondering if you will ever get through whatever difficult patch you're in at the time. I also know that when you do make those breakthroughs, when they find a new food they like, when they are suddenly able to do things independently or make a connection with you that you haven't had before, it feels like winning the lottery! I wish you both the best and hope you have plenty of wins coming!

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  • Hi M,

    Sorry to hear what a difficult time you are having. I'm afraid I can't help in terms of resources and it's difficult to understand exactly what you're going through without the specifics but I do know that having an Autistic child is an ongoing struggle. I know what it's like to sit there wondering if you will ever get through whatever difficult patch you're in at the time. I also know that when you do make those breakthroughs, when they find a new food they like, when they are suddenly able to do things independently or make a connection with you that you haven't had before, it feels like winning the lottery! I wish you both the best and hope you have plenty of wins coming!

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