Father who I struggling with his sons autism.

I am called M

My son is being assessed for ASD and I am struggling to cope with how to look after him. I bought a book but it barely scratched the surface and left me more confused.

I really struggle with him and it I feel like a rubbish dad because I dont do much with him as I dont know what to do.

This has caused my marriage to his mum to fall apart and I need help desperately.

Does anyone know any resources or help in the greater Manchester area please?

Thanks in advance

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Chloe Mod over 3 years ago

Hello NAS76880,

I'm sorry to hear that you are having such a difficult time with your son. As it sounds like you are in the process of seeking an autism diagnosis, you may find the following page our website useful:

https://www.autism.org.uk/advice-and-guidance/topics/diagnosis/post-diagnosis-support

Individuals on the spectrum can often display behaviour that may be challenging. There will generally be a reason for this and it is important to try and understand the trigger for the behaviour when developing strategies. You may like to have a look at the following link for more information on behaviour and strategies:

https://www.autism.org.uk/advice-and-guidance/topics/behaviour

You may be interested in seeking some professional support regarding the behaviour. You can search for professionals in your area we are aware of on the Autism Services Directory:

https://www.autism.org.uk/directory

You might also like to take a look at The Challenging Behaviour Foundation website for further information and advice:

https://www.challengingbehaviour.org.uk. They also have an information and support service which you can contact by phone or email – details can be found here: https://www.challengingbehaviour.org.uk/for-family-carers/family-support-service/

I hope this helps,

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Chloe Mod over 3 years ago

Hello NAS76880,

I'm sorry to hear that you are having such a difficult time with your son. As it sounds like you are in the process of seeking an autism diagnosis, you may find the following page our website useful:

https://www.autism.org.uk/advice-and-guidance/topics/diagnosis/post-diagnosis-support

Individuals on the spectrum can often display behaviour that may be challenging. There will generally be a reason for this and it is important to try and understand the trigger for the behaviour when developing strategies. You may like to have a look at the following link for more information on behaviour and strategies:

https://www.autism.org.uk/advice-and-guidance/topics/behaviour

You may be interested in seeking some professional support regarding the behaviour. You can search for professionals in your area we are aware of on the Autism Services Directory:

https://www.autism.org.uk/directory

You might also like to take a look at The Challenging Behaviour Foundation website for further information and advice:

https://www.challengingbehaviour.org.uk. They also have an information and support service which you can contact by phone or email – details can be found here: https://www.challengingbehaviour.org.uk/for-family-carers/family-support-service/

I hope this helps,

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