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Everything seems so difficult.

wee_witch

I have found myself struggling as a mum of two autistic children. Everything seems so much harder when you have to make sure that their needs are met. I love them so much and do my best, but I sometimes feel that it shouldn't be so hard. Do any other parents feel like that? I guess I am looking for a bit of support.

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  • It is hard. Incredibly hard. 

    If you are autistic yourself- time management struggles, lack of understanding basic orderings of every day things, never a handle on communication in general or hyper sensitive / hyper intuitive, it may be extraordinarily difficult without sound practical advice. 

    If you’re not and they inherited this from their father, it’s exhaustive just in the chasm of miscommunication and understanding. 

    Your role is the most you’ll ever experience in acts of selflessness. Just from one mum to another. Never take offence, they will always be dependent upon your mentoring. Always help them contain and identify emotions, you are their guide. If you show lead by example and always teach by doing a thing with them, it will be a million times easier. X

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  • It is hard. Incredibly hard. 

    If you are autistic yourself- time management struggles, lack of understanding basic orderings of every day things, never a handle on communication in general or hyper sensitive / hyper intuitive, it may be extraordinarily difficult without sound practical advice. 

    If you’re not and they inherited this from their father, it’s exhaustive just in the chasm of miscommunication and understanding. 

    Your role is the most you’ll ever experience in acts of selflessness. Just from one mum to another. Never take offence, they will always be dependent upon your mentoring. Always help them contain and identify emotions, you are their guide. If you show lead by example and always teach by doing a thing with them, it will be a million times easier. X

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