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Everything seems so difficult.

wee_witch

I have found myself struggling as a mum of two autistic children. Everything seems so much harder when you have to make sure that their needs are met. I love them so much and do my best, but I sometimes feel that it shouldn't be so hard. Do any other parents feel like that? I guess I am looking for a bit of support.

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  • wee_witch,

     I were very draining for my parents when a child, but you can’t blame all the behaviour on their autism as my parents always used my autism as an excuse. Just like all other children, those of us autistic can intentionally misbehave if it appears fun as in today’s world we’re surrounded by deceit making good things look bad and bad things look good. 

    The additional needs those of us autistic have can make things more exhausting as lots of parents and autistic people are denied help and support services, even though I’m 30 my dad still helps me with things I don’t intuitively understand. These are the consequences of living in an inherently ableist world, people who are seen as not disabled are only so because they receive more accommodations than any disabled person, the world is designed to accommodate for the needs of the majority.

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  • wee_witch,

     I were very draining for my parents when a child, but you can’t blame all the behaviour on their autism as my parents always used my autism as an excuse. Just like all other children, those of us autistic can intentionally misbehave if it appears fun as in today’s world we’re surrounded by deceit making good things look bad and bad things look good. 

    The additional needs those of us autistic have can make things more exhausting as lots of parents and autistic people are denied help and support services, even though I’m 30 my dad still helps me with things I don’t intuitively understand. These are the consequences of living in an inherently ableist world, people who are seen as not disabled are only so because they receive more accommodations than any disabled person, the world is designed to accommodate for the needs of the majority.

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