Computer games

Hi,

I was recently diagnosed with ASD and am still coming to terms with it. I have some reading materials that I'll try and look at over the Christmas period but I can't guarantee being able to focus.

I wanted to understand if anyone else finds certain computer games a welcome break from the world, and that they are soothing? Most computer games are a sensory overload for me and even when they aren't I often get a headache after 30-60 min. There are a few which are nice and calm and help me when I feel overloaded. I like a game called Skyrim - it has wonderful repetitive soothing music and an open world, so you can just walk around and explore, and interact with people only when you want. The dialogue options are nice and simple too. I sometimes also play turn-based computer versions of board games. There are some available on Steam that are fun, like Gloomhaven. Am I alone in this? Does anyone else have this as a hobby / decompressing activity?

Hope you are all doing well.

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  • Yes I've had a look. I may buy it after Christmas is out of the way. I've got a child's birthday and Christmas to pay for this month so not much leftover for luxuries for myself. 

  • Same here, but in these times it is sometimes the only option Disappointed

    I have Gloomhaven through Steam. If you like the look of it then let me know! :)

  • I will download Gloomhaven and have a look. I haven't played Catan properly - I downloaded the app but couldn't get into it. I much prefer to play the original versions of games rather than video game adaptations. 

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  • Have you played Master of Magic? It fits your pixel graphic requirement really well!

  • I always wanted to try Skyrim and don't really know why I still haven't

    I like Animal Crossing for a similar reason. I've always liked games like The Sims, Theme Park/Hospital, Creatures...

    I also like puzzle games with simple repetitive elements.

    I've played WoW and SWG when I've had an online gaming phase but these were so addictive and consuming so I don't tend to play games where other people are relying on me logging on now. I do like playing Mario Party though or similar competitive games that are relatively simple. I don't like shooting games or anything that will make me jump. 

    I also like board games when I want to get away from screens. Scrabble is probably my favourite go-to classic but I have two huge cupboards full of board games! 

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    especially those on mobile

    bouncing stars, sounds like from a casino in Las Vegas, i get goosebump ust to think about it

    I prefer more relaxing games, so I play turn-based, and old style, with pixel graphic best, like Master of Orion

    I started learning Java, to write my own Sudoku on mobile, to play without all those extra effects

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    A bit like noUserName, it's part of my morning routine to go in and collect my coins/crops and start off any building/upgrading tasks.

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