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Accepting Criticism

Paul

Has anyone got any tips on how to better accept criticism?  I am terrible, as my wife will attest but now I know the reason why I find it so hard, is there anything I can do about it?

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  • there is few kinds of criticism, which one is your case?

    some of them are used by people to manipulate others, undermining everything they say

    sometimes it is all in our heads, because someone speaking did not intend any hidden meaning and we thought there is criticism,

    intricasis of english language and many meanings, non-autistic often choose the offensive meaning of questioning and I was trying to pass the other one, it eludes me still, because when I go to being offensive I use different words.

    if there is just meaning you did it wrong and nothing proposed about how to improve, then what is the point of such critism other than to demean a person.

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  • there is few kinds of criticism, which one is your case?

    some of them are used by people to manipulate others, undermining everything they say

    sometimes it is all in our heads, because someone speaking did not intend any hidden meaning and we thought there is criticism,

    intricasis of english language and many meanings, non-autistic often choose the offensive meaning of questioning and I was trying to pass the other one, it eludes me still, because when I go to being offensive I use different words.

    if there is just meaning you did it wrong and nothing proposed about how to improve, then what is the point of such critism other than to demean a person.

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