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Vulnerable and Isolation withdrawing causing Vulnerability loop

autismtwo

This is quite difficult to talk about as I am myself just getting my head around this,

When I have an external factor pushing on my life or an uncertainty making life seem extreamely dangerous,, I feel vulnerable and with that vulnerability I close down with stress and anxiety, this isolates me away from contact with people and closes me down verbally talking about the vulnerability because I am vulnerable. So the isolation(protect method and non-communicative) makes me further vulnerable, so it is a catch 22, vulnerable, withdraw, isolated, more vulnerable... stress to stress loop.

Take any examples on this forum from fellow aspies,, the main theme is vulnerability and isolation also, I would even go as far to say that the system generates this position in society, benefits, housing, lack of care etc

Any thoughts ?

Do you feel vulnerable by society ?

Do you feel isolated ?

Does this isolation make you feel more vulnerable ?

 

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  • Scorpian,, I  think I know the answer it is so simple.....

    We need comfort, just simple human comforting.

    A Nursing type therapy, I know that sounds sad, but I have never had comforting or nursing(probably a type of human nurturing). I can understand,, doctors believing autism in the past was caused by parents, my mother and father are remote emotionally, I have always stood alone like an invisible orphan in my own world. Aspergers is probably just a type of orphan syndrome. And as the number of mothers which go to work, probably is pushing this condition to epidemic levels in the future, correlate in lack of *** feeding and early nursery and school starting age(I WAS 4 !) and watch this space.

    I may even stretch this point further and say I have a bad time in the womb, born pre-mature, underweight, jaundice, runt of the lidder, mother drank, smoked and worked in a noisy pickle factory whilst pregnant. Hallelujah WELCOME to a blackbile poison world.

    The experts may say,, no no no,, it is genetic,, I say it is the early environment which delivers those genes.. womb to birth to early years, to support network which has a psychogenic effect and thus affect.

    I spend my whole childhood getting put down, bullied with  no comfort, praise or love. I am sorry but my autism is caused by lack of personality development and loving environment  growing up. The french and some european countries, including south korea believe autism is psychogenic also.

     

     

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  • Scorpian,, I  think I know the answer it is so simple.....

    We need comfort, just simple human comforting.

    A Nursing type therapy, I know that sounds sad, but I have never had comforting or nursing(probably a type of human nurturing). I can understand,, doctors believing autism in the past was caused by parents, my mother and father are remote emotionally, I have always stood alone like an invisible orphan in my own world. Aspergers is probably just a type of orphan syndrome. And as the number of mothers which go to work, probably is pushing this condition to epidemic levels in the future, correlate in lack of *** feeding and early nursery and school starting age(I WAS 4 !) and watch this space.

    I may even stretch this point further and say I have a bad time in the womb, born pre-mature, underweight, jaundice, runt of the lidder, mother drank, smoked and worked in a noisy pickle factory whilst pregnant. Hallelujah WELCOME to a blackbile poison world.

    The experts may say,, no no no,, it is genetic,, I say it is the early environment which delivers those genes.. womb to birth to early years, to support network which has a psychogenic effect and thus affect.

    I spend my whole childhood getting put down, bullied with  no comfort, praise or love. I am sorry but my autism is caused by lack of personality development and loving environment  growing up. The french and some european countries, including south korea believe autism is psychogenic also.

     

     

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