Advice please - need response!

Hi, hope all of you are well. 
I am a teen and I am really struggling, I will detail it here.

So basically my Mum’s friend is a constant nuisance as she asks stupid questions that are very easy to answer and it essentially shows she knows nothing. She’s been doing it for a while now. I always try to help as best I can but I’m very direct as I get very annoyed. These arguments/heated conversation for an hours. Today we had an argument and another of my mums friends absolutely lost it. When she lost it I got the angriest I’ve got in a while resulting in me breaking things and smashing a cake into the ground. I didn’t know what to do. 

Is it normal (bearing in mind I am autistic) for me to break things and be one of the angriest people any of my family know?

Is it normal to care too much about what people think of me?

Is it normal for me to always react?

Is it normal for me to care too much about things in general?

Please let me know!

Parents
  • Can’t think of a good reason I’d be hanging around with my mum’s friends, almost universally do my head in. Usually avoid like the plague, in the most polite manner possible of course.  Some people will unintentionally (or intentionally) get on your nerves, it’s just the way of things.  Definitely not worth breaking things over, just remove yourself from those situations and/or people where necessary. 

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  • Can’t think of a good reason I’d be hanging around with my mum’s friends, almost universally do my head in. Usually avoid like the plague, in the most polite manner possible of course.  Some people will unintentionally (or intentionally) get on your nerves, it’s just the way of things.  Definitely not worth breaking things over, just remove yourself from those situations and/or people where necessary. 

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