Clothes

Does anyone else feel affected by the clothes they wear? I find like different ways of dressing trigger me and affect my personality.

Like if I dress a certain way I feel like I will behave a certain way or that I should behave a certain way. If I wear a different sort of outfit I feel I need to behave differently or act differently

I also get quite stressed if I feel my clothes dont go together. Like normal casual clothes on top and sportier clothes on bottom for instance

Haircuts are quite a stressful trigger for me as well

Just wondered whether clothes can be a trigger for anyone else or is it just me?

Parents
  • I find this especially when I wear uniform. 

    When I wear work clothes I am a completely different person to the 12 year old wearing pyjamas or comfy clothes. 

    I also agree with the haircut. I find that perfumes or different smells trigger me too. My mum cuts my hair for me in march which is when I switch to summer shampoo and shower gel and then switch back to winter shampoo and shower gel in September. If I use the wrong shampoo/ showergel I feel very unsettled and have more meltdowns 

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  • I find this especially when I wear uniform. 

    When I wear work clothes I am a completely different person to the 12 year old wearing pyjamas or comfy clothes. 

    I also agree with the haircut. I find that perfumes or different smells trigger me too. My mum cuts my hair for me in march which is when I switch to summer shampoo and shower gel and then switch back to winter shampoo and shower gel in September. If I use the wrong shampoo/ showergel I feel very unsettled and have more meltdowns 

Children
  • I love to wear pyjamas too. Today I  kept them on I didn’t feel like getting dressed.

    I have bought soft pyjama bottoms, I wear them as normal trousers in the house. I like soft clothes. I don’t like clothes that smell musty or damp. They must smell like they have been washed dried properly. Plus softness is key.

    I don’t like any cold clothes on my skin. Itchy or crackling cloths. I don’t like lumpy socks Uber my feet. Or if I get a little stone in my shoe.

  • I totally understand that. I hate wearing work clothes

    Do you find you wear different things according to your mood as well?

    Thats interesting about the shampoo. I havnt tried that but I do hate washing my hair, sometimes I take ages to get dressed in the morning cos I cant face the thought of that water running down over my head. Its a really big sensory thing