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Strange situation with a girl

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I met a girl at university and we have been friendly and chatty and a few people told me that she liked me and so I tried to get to know her better and I was building up to asking her out but now she is going out with someone else and I feel really bad and weird about it. I feel sad that she is going out with someone and I feel very jealous that other people have the ability to ask people out and I feel really left out because I don't know how to go about meeting people.  

I really want to get over her but I feel like I cant and I keep thinking about her, I live very close to her and we are in the same loose friendship group and we car share so I keep seeing her and when I do I feel very sad and uncomfortable.  

I kind of want to tell her how i feel but i don't want to be made fun of or upset her or make things weird 

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  • Do you know whether she is in a serious relationship or is it casual dating? If it's serious, I think you should probably not say anything about it to her unless they break up. Otherwise I think it would be OK to say something. You could text her or write a note. That also makes it less awkward for her because she would have time to process it before replying. She won't make fun of you unless she is a horrible person, and if she is horrible then you don't want to know her anyway.

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  • Do you know whether she is in a serious relationship or is it casual dating? If it's serious, I think you should probably not say anything about it to her unless they break up. Otherwise I think it would be OK to say something. You could text her or write a note. That also makes it less awkward for her because she would have time to process it before replying. She won't make fun of you unless she is a horrible person, and if she is horrible then you don't want to know her anyway.

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