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Trust

The Riddler

I have been thinking about this for a whil now and spent some time noticing how I interact with a variety of people. What I have come to realise more and more is, fundamentally I just don't trust other people! 

With people I've just met I don't trust they will act appropriately, be kind, considerate, non-selfish, etc, etc. Then with people I do know (and especially since getting diagnosed) I just don't believe they are being honest towards me, not judging me behind my back, and ultimately won't let me down and just turn out to be fake. 

I hate to say it, but even with my partner to some extent. It wouldn't entirely surprise me if she said she'd met someone else because I was too much to deal with! Even though at the moment she says she's not bothered about me being Aspie.

What are other people's thoughts, feelings, experience with Trust. Is it something that comes easily or something you struggle with?

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  • I do not trust people easily. It is difficult to get past fear of vulnerability especially if you have been masking for most of your life.

    You shouldn't trust everyone with everything though anyway.  In particular, you are not obligated to tell people about your diagnosis. It's very personal stuff so you've got to know your own boundaries.

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  • I do not trust people easily. It is difficult to get past fear of vulnerability especially if you have been masking for most of your life.

    You shouldn't trust everyone with everything though anyway.  In particular, you are not obligated to tell people about your diagnosis. It's very personal stuff so you've got to know your own boundaries.

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