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Help my relationship pleaseee

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Hi All,

Im super new here and need some advice from anyone. My boyfriend and I have been together almost 2 years now and recently things just haven't been working out, this is mostly to do with his inability to understand social norms. He find it impossible to empathise with people and understand how his words have actions. He has recently confided that he believes he is autistic. I know this is a forum specific to autism and I would just like some advice/ stories from people who may have been in a similar situation. Our relationship is seriously on the rocks so this diagnosis explains a lot of our issues.

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  • For those with autism, social norms can be a very difficult thing to maneuver, with the facial gestures, eye contact, body language, correct timing, and figuring out what would be acceptable topics to say, and you have to have empathy for him that not everyone can react in the way you deem as "socially normal." I believe the reason why he's told you that he is likely autistic, is so you'd understand that at least there's a reason why he has trouble with socializing, and it's not because he's trying to be bad to others on purpose. Just have some empathy for him.

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  • For those with autism, social norms can be a very difficult thing to maneuver, with the facial gestures, eye contact, body language, correct timing, and figuring out what would be acceptable topics to say, and you have to have empathy for him that not everyone can react in the way you deem as "socially normal." I believe the reason why he's told you that he is likely autistic, is so you'd understand that at least there's a reason why he has trouble with socializing, and it's not because he's trying to be bad to others on purpose. Just have some empathy for him.

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