Relationship with Asperger's man

Hi I'm in a relationship with a man who has a lot of Asperger's traits. We're taking it slowly, but I'd like some thoughts from other men with Asperger's to help me. We've been friends since Christmas Thinkingand seeing & communicating with each each other from March. However, it seems that he blows hot and cold and I wondered if this was a typical trait. For example the last couple of weeks we've seen each other more than usual through mutual agreement and he's messaged me a lot more. But this week his messages have become less, more one word answers and much less chatty. Is this down to overload would anyone say? I'd appreciate any help on this Thinking

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  • Easy to overthink this type of thing. Why not gently just ask him. Maybe he’d appreciate the fact you noticed and you can see what his answer is. Also the fact you are thinking about his thought processes.

    often Frank talking like this enriches your relationship if he is very interested in you and you are prepared to show this aspect of yourself 

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  • Easy to overthink this type of thing. Why not gently just ask him. Maybe he’d appreciate the fact you noticed and you can see what his answer is. Also the fact you are thinking about his thought processes.

    often Frank talking like this enriches your relationship if he is very interested in you and you are prepared to show this aspect of yourself 

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