Relationship with Asperger's man

Hi I'm in a relationship with a man who has a lot of Asperger's traits. We're taking it slowly, but I'd like some thoughts from other men with Asperger's to help me. We've been friends since Christmas Thinkingand seeing & communicating with each each other from March. However, it seems that he blows hot and cold and I wondered if this was a typical trait. For example the last couple of weeks we've seen each other more than usual through mutual agreement and he's messaged me a lot more. But this week his messages have become less, more one word answers and much less chatty. Is this down to overload would anyone say? I'd appreciate any help on this Thinking

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  • Disclaimer I am not officially diagnosed but believe to be what would be called High functioning Aspergers.  Sometime I can carry on conversations texts etc fine but then others I just send one word answers like you describe.  If you have talked about possible Aspergers then you could say something like "don't feel you have to answer straight away or in detail or something like that.

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  • Disclaimer I am not officially diagnosed but believe to be what would be called High functioning Aspergers.  Sometime I can carry on conversations texts etc fine but then others I just send one word answers like you describe.  If you have talked about possible Aspergers then you could say something like "don't feel you have to answer straight away or in detail or something like that.

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