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Verbal bullying

Ellie b

My new friend next door she is autistic same as me I know what it's like to b judged got called weird freak everything at school so much that in my life its mentally damaged me I'm seeing a professional psychiatrist for ptsd and psychosis. Now yesterday my fiance sister called my autistic friend weird she is a lovely girl really helped me coz been struggling got really close with her I found out she was offended upset being called the weird one especially from Sarah who has been good to me soon she said that to chloe Tom her half come round telling me she was upset made me angry triggered meltdown and my anger to. 

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  • So your fiancé’s sister (Sarah?) called your friend (Chloe) weird. Her partner Tom has told you Sarah said that and upset them and you’re also upset because if she thinks that about Chloe then she may think that about you too? And also you’re upset that she upset your friend? Have I understood that right? It’s quite hard to follow when you’ve gone from referring to people by relationship to then referring to them by name. I agree with Untoward about “owning” the label, if I wasn’t “weird” I wouldn’t be me but I understand that can be difficult for those who may have a lower self esteem than I do. Has your fiancé spoken to his sister about her comments? Did she say them to her face? Who told her if she said it behind your friend’s back?

  • in reply to Ellie b

    My fiance daughter was on video to her aunt Sarah she told her she was round next doors at chloes Sarah went and said what the weird one on speaker phone then my friend chloe herd her other half come bursting round to mine saying his partner is upset coz being offended then I ended up losing it in a meltdown where my anger came out x

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  • in reply to Ellie b

    My fiance daughter was on video to her aunt Sarah she told her she was round next doors at chloes Sarah went and said what the weird one on speaker phone then my friend chloe herd her other half come bursting round to mine saying his partner is upset coz being offended then I ended up losing it in a meltdown where my anger came out x

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