ah i felt similar. 31 living with parents, my dad was always a very working class type so he always call me lazy and there was times he just shout at me every day and force me to listen to him whining at me same *** every day insulting me swearing at me calling me lazy and so on. he too has a weird thing about putting things in places, his place for things always changes and he expects everyone to know where he wants it to be despite that always changing and him not telling us the new place for it, this causes him to shout at everyone for putting things in the wrong place which he accuses us of doing it on purpose, despite it being him always changing a items place.... he stopped now and mellowed down, i guess age is catching up with him? lol although he did start to mellow out coincidentally after i started getting swole and training kung fu so maybe its a assertive dominance thing.... then again he has also been taking cbd and other health supplements so maybe something he took has corrected him somehow. but yeah was a pain living with him all this time, hell he went through my room and trashed it and moved my stuff to another room one time, and im very picky about my room being my space and not wanting anyone in it.
i dunno what can be done, aside from train, get swole, take up martial arts, become more assertive to the point he fears you, establish some form of assertive dominance physically to the point he wouldnt want to annoy you. then he will become more submissive.
ah i felt similar. 31 living with parents, my dad was always a very working class type so he always call me lazy and there was times he just shout at me every day and force me to listen to him whining at me same *** every day insulting me swearing at me calling me lazy and so on. he too has a weird thing about putting things in places, his place for things always changes and he expects everyone to know where he wants it to be despite that always changing and him not telling us the new place for it, this causes him to shout at everyone for putting things in the wrong place which he accuses us of doing it on purpose, despite it being him always changing a items place.... he stopped now and mellowed down, i guess age is catching up with him? lol although he did start to mellow out coincidentally after i started getting swole and training kung fu so maybe its a assertive dominance thing.... then again he has also been taking cbd and other health supplements so maybe something he took has corrected him somehow. but yeah was a pain living with him all this time, hell he went through my room and trashed it and moved my stuff to another room one time, and im very picky about my room being my space and not wanting anyone in it.
i dunno what can be done, aside from train, get swole, take up martial arts, become more assertive to the point he fears you, establish some form of assertive dominance physically to the point he wouldnt want to annoy you. then he will become more submissive.
I have thought about making a private enquiry somewhere, but it’s all sort of geared around women who are in relationships and it makes me feel like I’m not justified somewhat. I get the thing about the rooms thing, mine is mine and I don’t like anyone to interfere with it. I had a really worry bout recently because I have my phone and my tablet in my room, but until recently I didn’t have passcodes on them (I find them frustrating), my Mum told me I should put them on as it’s best for security and safety (I hate the internet), but I worry that what if whilst I wasn’t in, he got into my room and onto my devices somehow, who knows what he might do? It’s just all so scary and unsettling, I just never know what he’s going to do next.
