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Brother is nit just autistic but also a psychopath

NAS74162

My brother who has autism which I believe is also psychopathy or something along those lines... Recently we have had a falling out about my grandmother who recently passed away and he is absolute %100 void of care and empathy often says he doesn't care shes gone and literally said she was a d head so he doesnt care shes gone.

I've been saying it for years he needs serious help but my mother has always given him sympathy and takes no notice of it and says oh he has autism. I know for a fact if I told the rest of my family about the real reason he isn't going to my grans funeral they would all hate him but no my mother just keeps him sheltered and says its ok even if he's clearly in the wrong she will still apologise to HIM.

I could never bring any women round to the house and an ex girlfriend of mine actually dumped me purely because of him.. He used to try to watch us having sex by spying through the curtains one time. He is practically always playing with himself upstairs and is CONSTANTLY talking about sex and getting laid he is literally obsessed with sex.

I want her to put him somewhere... I dont know what but like some psych ward or something to sort him out I know one day he will end up doing something stupid to someone. It's  ot the fact he has autism but he is a psychopath on top of that but my mum just says oh its autism leave him be when clearly it's not just autism.

There are plenty of very lovable people with autism who are very sweet and I tell you now he doesnt just have autism there is something serious there and nobody listens I don't know what to do?

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  • NAS74162 said:
    often says he doesn't care shes gone and literally said she was a d head so he doesnt care shes gone.

    I don't know but that could be quite natural. Sometimes parents, or grandparents, can treat children quite differently. If he felt rejected by her while she lived it would make sense if he rejected her after her death.

    NAS74162 said:
    He used to try to watch us having sex by spying through the curtains one time.

    While obviously not ok it is better to light a candle than curse the dark. Surely you can understand why your brother might be jelious of your sexual relationships? In fact doing it in the room next door could almost be rubbing his face in it. It certainly something some one needs to talk to him about and explain is not ok but by the same token you might help things by not doing that while he's around.

    NAS74162 said:
    He is practically always playing with himself upstairs and is CONSTANTLY talking about sex and getting laid he is literally obsessed with sex.

    And if you were still a virgin I expect you might be too. I mean you are basically on the internet complaining to strangers about how your brother is making it hard for you to get laid.

    NAS74162 said:
    It's  ot the fact he has autism but he is a psychopath on top of that

    you keep using that word but I don't think you really know what it means

    NAS74162 said:
    I don't know what to do?

    Well have you thought about talking to him? Maybe asking him why he does what he does? Maybe see if you can help make his life better? If not for him then for you. Would make him easier to live with.

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  • NAS74162 said:
    often says he doesn't care shes gone and literally said she was a d head so he doesnt care shes gone.

    I don't know but that could be quite natural. Sometimes parents, or grandparents, can treat children quite differently. If he felt rejected by her while she lived it would make sense if he rejected her after her death.

    NAS74162 said:
    He used to try to watch us having sex by spying through the curtains one time.

    While obviously not ok it is better to light a candle than curse the dark. Surely you can understand why your brother might be jelious of your sexual relationships? In fact doing it in the room next door could almost be rubbing his face in it. It certainly something some one needs to talk to him about and explain is not ok but by the same token you might help things by not doing that while he's around.

    NAS74162 said:
    He is practically always playing with himself upstairs and is CONSTANTLY talking about sex and getting laid he is literally obsessed with sex.

    And if you were still a virgin I expect you might be too. I mean you are basically on the internet complaining to strangers about how your brother is making it hard for you to get laid.

    NAS74162 said:
    It's  ot the fact he has autism but he is a psychopath on top of that

    you keep using that word but I don't think you really know what it means

    NAS74162 said:
    I don't know what to do?

    Well have you thought about talking to him? Maybe asking him why he does what he does? Maybe see if you can help make his life better? If not for him then for you. Would make him easier to live with.

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