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Brother is nit just autistic but also a psychopath

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My brother who has autism which I believe is also psychopathy or something along those lines... Recently we have had a falling out about my grandmother who recently passed away and he is absolute %100 void of care and empathy often says he doesn't care shes gone and literally said she was a d head so he doesnt care shes gone.

I've been saying it for years he needs serious help but my mother has always given him sympathy and takes no notice of it and says oh he has autism. I know for a fact if I told the rest of my family about the real reason he isn't going to my grans funeral they would all hate him but no my mother just keeps him sheltered and says its ok even if he's clearly in the wrong she will still apologise to HIM.

I could never bring any women round to the house and an ex girlfriend of mine actually dumped me purely because of him.. He used to try to watch us having sex by spying through the curtains one time. He is practically always playing with himself upstairs and is CONSTANTLY talking about sex and getting laid he is literally obsessed with sex.

I want her to put him somewhere... I dont know what but like some psych ward or something to sort him out I know one day he will end up doing something stupid to someone. It's  ot the fact he has autism but he is a psychopath on top of that but my mum just says oh its autism leave him be when clearly it's not just autism.

There are plenty of very lovable people with autism who are very sweet and I tell you now he doesnt just have autism there is something serious there and nobody listens I don't know what to do?

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  • ehhhh i dunno i dont think id chalk that down to autism like your mum keeps blaming it on...

    could be that he just wasnt close to his grandma and didnt see her enough or form any bond and thus to him shes just another person. but still if he loves his mother and sees his mother crying over his grandmothers loss id expect that would make him feel sadness for his mother... perhaps thats why he doesnt wanna go to the funeral? perhaps he actually does feel sadness, but maybe sadness for his mothers sadness... perhaps he doesnt wanna be seen by anyone to be crying? maybe even saying mean stuff about his grandmother could even be a mask in a way of him covering up sadness with showing opposite feeling?

    but otherwise being sex obssessed and foul mouthed i wouldnt chalk it down to autism, but rather chav culture, and chalk it down to society instead. thats the way society is these days, kids grow up like that all chavvy and obsessed with beer, sex and football and seemingly have no care for others. thats not autism, thats just englands shitty modern day society.

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  • ehhhh i dunno i dont think id chalk that down to autism like your mum keeps blaming it on...

    could be that he just wasnt close to his grandma and didnt see her enough or form any bond and thus to him shes just another person. but still if he loves his mother and sees his mother crying over his grandmothers loss id expect that would make him feel sadness for his mother... perhaps thats why he doesnt wanna go to the funeral? perhaps he actually does feel sadness, but maybe sadness for his mothers sadness... perhaps he doesnt wanna be seen by anyone to be crying? maybe even saying mean stuff about his grandmother could even be a mask in a way of him covering up sadness with showing opposite feeling?

    but otherwise being sex obssessed and foul mouthed i wouldnt chalk it down to autism, but rather chav culture, and chalk it down to society instead. thats the way society is these days, kids grow up like that all chavvy and obsessed with beer, sex and football and seemingly have no care for others. thats not autism, thats just englands shitty modern day society.

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