Hi my daughter/son as asd. But as so many meltdowns were he bites his self punchs walls and bangs his head on floor. Hes also transgender wanting to be a boy instead of a girl.he dosnt go out of house cos of anxity. His safe place is his bedroom. He is 17 and i dont know what i can do to help him. Please can anyone give me advice . He also tells me he wishes he was dead.
Hello NAS74077,
I'm sorry to hear about your daughter/son meltdowns. The NAS website has a page about 'Autism and Gender Identity' which might be a good read for you: https://www.autism.org.uk/advice-and-guidance/what-is-autism/autism-and-gender-identity
Also, there are many articles on meltdowns, such as this one: https://www.autism.org.uk/advice-and-guidance/topics/behaviour/meltdowns/all-audiences
Please have a read. All the best,
Karin Mod
Karin Mod, I've sent an email regarding this matter, but you might be able to deal with it in a more timely matter. Caelus is being extremely abusive and spreading hate speech regarding transgenger issues. Not only is this illegal, but it's highly upsetting and triggering for many, not least the OP, I'm sure. It is completely unacceptable that he be allowed to publicly claim that gender reassignment is genital mutilation (which, in itself, is a very serious matter and not something to be bandied about), and that anyone who supports and accepts someone who wishes to reassign, is a murderer. This is going to be devastating for any parent with a transgenger child to read! He needs stopping!
yeah and ive reported all your posts too for harrassment and i now issue you a formal legal notice to cease harrassing me over every single topic and stop following me all over the internet attacking me. this is your formal legal notice.... the next step is a court case... i mean come on, if you dont like me then stop following me and replying to my every post and harassing me, this is you doing this, leave me alone and ignore me, mods make it so she cant comment on any of my comments or something...
Karin Mod to the mods i request you to remove the user "JustMe" for breaking the uk laws on harrassment. she makes me feel uncomfortable and not safe or welcome here and i feel she needs to be removed from this site.... i have many other witnesses on this site who can attest to the fact this user has been following me around trying to provoke me and harrass me for weeks now. some even pointed it out in previous topics that she was doing this...
no, you specifically respond on my comments and comment direct to me to harrass and attack me when you dont need to do... if you dont like me or my comment just ignore me entirely and move on and put your own reply to the OP instead. but instead you opt to follow me around and respond to all of my comments in a harrassing antagonist manner when thats not really needed. but i suppose you have been indoctrinated to be like that in this era of fascist politics.... i bet you harrass and follow politicians around you dont like too and follow them around all day shouting abuse at them dont you like those people we see who are always wasting their time to follow around and heckle boris johnson as if harassment isnt a crime and is if he isnt a human that deserves to go about his day without grief and harassment. sadly these days harassment is normalised and you dotn even see the problem with it.
and by the way, learn the law.... hate crime requires a crime.. words alone are not a crime. hate crime is a motivator label for a actual crime... like assault... if you assault someone that is the crime, then if they see you made a comment about that persons skin when doing it that assault becomes hate crime.... for the hate crime there needs to be a actual crime.... harassment is a actual crime though. which is what fills in most hate crimes as the true hate criminals generally harrass and dont leave a person alone thus their hate crime is cemented as a crime by their harassment.
there is also public disorder offences which most come down to, and they are slap on the wrist offences that are mainly only there to be used as crowd control. to temporary arrest and remove someone, it is the perfect power to temporary remove someone from a protest for example, of which i think we had this discussion before and you didnt believe me then but makes full sense when you see it as a control mechanism and see the amount of people done for public disorder offences who were merely just moved out of the way and let go.
no, you specifically respond on my comments and comment direct to me to harrass and attack me when you dont need to do... if you dont like me or my comment just ignore me entirely and move on and put your own reply to the OP instead. but instead you opt to follow me around and respond to all of my comments in a harrassing antagonist manner when thats not really needed. but i suppose you have been indoctrinated to be like that in this era of fascist politics.... i bet you harrass and follow politicians around you dont like too and follow them around all day shouting abuse at them dont you like those people we see who are always wasting their time to follow around and heckle boris johnson as if harassment isnt a crime and is if he isnt a human that deserves to go about his day without grief and harassment. sadly these days harassment is normalised and you dotn even see the problem with it.
and by the way, learn the law.... hate crime requires a crime.. words alone are not a crime. hate crime is a motivator label for a actual crime... like assault... if you assault someone that is the crime, then if they see you made a comment about that persons skin when doing it that assault becomes hate crime.... for the hate crime there needs to be a actual crime.... harassment is a actual crime though. which is what fills in most hate crimes as the true hate criminals generally harrass and dont leave a person alone thus their hate crime is cemented as a crime by their harassment.
there is also public disorder offences which most come down to, and they are slap on the wrist offences that are mainly only there to be used as crowd control. to temporary arrest and remove someone, it is the perfect power to temporary remove someone from a protest for example, of which i think we had this discussion before and you didnt believe me then but makes full sense when you see it as a control mechanism and see the amount of people done for public disorder offences who were merely just moved out of the way and let go.
