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Friendship advice

Wizza mouse

Hi everyone

So I have a friend, who's partner about to have a kindey transplant and my friend is giving one up. 

I'm fearing, that my friend, is going to shut down on me talk wise, I'm afaird if that happens, I will worry and wrong think.

What do I do. I'm just not sure weather to talk on it with her or let her come to me to tell me. ?? 

Thank u 

Lizzy

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  • Hi Lizzy

    It is an incredibly brave and noble thing to do to give up a kidney for another human being - it is not a simple operation and comes with all sorts of risks and repercussions.    They are likely to feel very ill afterwards - weak and in pain - so I wouldn't have though keeping in contact with friends would be their first priority - don't take it personally..

    All you can do beforehand is let your friend know that you're there for them - make sure they know that you'll help as much as you can and that you'll be there for them in they need to talk.

    Best wishes.

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  • Hi Lizzy

    It is an incredibly brave and noble thing to do to give up a kidney for another human being - it is not a simple operation and comes with all sorts of risks and repercussions.    They are likely to feel very ill afterwards - weak and in pain - so I wouldn't have though keeping in contact with friends would be their first priority - don't take it personally..

    All you can do beforehand is let your friend know that you're there for them - make sure they know that you'll help as much as you can and that you'll be there for them in they need to talk.

    Best wishes.

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