Unmasking experience

dunno, i guess i do, but doesnt everyone present a different face to everyone they dont know? nd a different face to the world anyway. different layers of faces and masks for different relations. and yet not even the deepest relation will truly get the full you and you will still hide stuff from them and want to appear in control to some degree and not want to harm your image.

id say my public face is so detached from who i am that i wont even show my love for cute cats! lol because that is not a very cool look on a guy and can make you look soft.

ofcourse things like making involuntary weird noises often break through the cracks of any mask as they are rather involuntary, but sometimes can be curved or covered up into something else that totally seemed voluntary and in control. 

Cute cats? What's not to love? My NT son (now 26) would confess to that and to hell with any one who thought him soft. Lol. 

dunno, to his mum maybe, i allow that much to slip to my parents to the point i overreact to the fullest to a cat in a almost childlike way lol but to randoms? nah youd keep your cool if randoms are watching to not look weird lol

Left them behind! What's the matter with some people? Good job the kitties have you as a neighbour.

We lost our old Tom cat to cancer in the pandemic. Nextdoor's cat seems to think he has 3 homes in the street. He visits us every day

Send them around here Dawn, we have 5 cats!!! two of our own, 1 moved in years ago from across the road and wouldnt go home even though they brought him home 3 times!! then the tennants next door moved and left their 2 cats behind!!

Yep! That's the sort of thing my husband would, my son would do and my step-son would do. They love cats.

There's a cat who always makes an appearance up the street. i went past once and an adult man was sitting on the floor (not the owner) with him/her, tickling it's belly and playing with it. 

You might be surprised how many ransoms also think cats are super cute...all apart from my father in law who pretends to hate them, but then left to look after his grand son's cat really bonded with her and did not quite want to give up the cat sitting duty.  Lol. Yeah right, grandad! Cat hater? We don't believe it.

You might be surprised how many ransoms also think cats are super cute...all apart from my father in law who pretends to hate them, but then left to look after his grand son's cat really bonded with her and did not quite want to give up the cat sitting duty.  Lol. Yeah right, grandad! Cat hater? We don't believe it.