How to deal with a very nasty NT

I think i know what I'd do. I'd nip up to B&Q & purchase a few feet of 2inch square section wood and a BIG pot of evostik plus a paintbrush. 

Then as soon as you are sure she is asleep, glue each section to the door and doorframe to seal it shut using a decent amount of glue to get a strong bond by the morning.  

Then, when asked if it was you, you look 'em straight in the eye and deny it!

Because we Aspies don't lie very well your neighbour will KNOW it was you, but providing you DO NOT ADMIT IT under any circumstances, then you won't get in trouble. 

Just make sure there are no cameras covering her doorstep or those "smart doorbell" things and you should be good to go.

IF you HAVE to take action against NT's a combination of pretty harmless but weird and unsettling is the way to go.

IF you have money and are not too far away you could always pay me to do it. Ever since I conceived the idea, no one has given me an excuse to carry it out...

Forget using the law, they won't help you, and in fact will probably side with your neighbour if they get a sniff of "not right" about you like they usually do with us Aspies/Autists.

Although a private prosecution (if you have the stomach and persistence) in the small claims court CAN work IF you have a good representative. I've tried most of the ways I can think of of taking it to the NT's who pick on me since I was old enough to push back, and although nasty, they are usually turn out to be far less resourceful or determined to prevail than I am once I get properly engaged.

In fact my pacifism these days, is based on the fact that although I am rather good at pushing back, I don't like the guilt I feel (sometimes) when I see how weak the NT mind actually is. The guy I sued, (and sued, and sued, remorselessly and without mercy, just as he treated me) broke psychologically under the strain of fighting me, and is actually dead now.

We are not "weak", we are merely unsuited to their way of doing things which puts us at a HUGE disadvantage if we play the game they want us to, so don't do that.

USE your out of the box thinking skills if they want to mess with you, most of them have nothing of similar power, and will crumble quite quickly. Identify whatever power they have, and make sure you fight them in a way that invalidates that power.

I've even used extreme niceness and concern for my oppressors well being very successfully indeed on occasion, with people who genuinely got the wrong idea about me, and just needed to be brought to the realisation that I am not trying to offend,or take advantage, but for a depressingly large amount of NT's that is not enough sadly, so they have to be deterred by other means.

That's the reason that the Taliban or North Vietnamese regulars have been so successful against all comers. They don't fight as their enemies would like them to. I've been reading SunTzu's "art of war" recently, (It is mercifully short!) and there is a fair bit of good advice to be had in there.

Please, everyone who reads this, just stop taking their *** or it will NEVER END.

I think i know what I'd do. I'd nip up to B&Q & purchase a few feet of 2inch square section wood and a BIG pot of evostik plus a paintbrush. 

Then as soon as you are sure she is asleep, glue each section to the door and doorframe to seal it shut using a decent amount of glue to get a strong bond by the morning.  

Then, when asked if it was you, you look 'em straight in the eye and deny it!

Because we Aspies don't lie very well your neighbour will KNOW it was you, but providing you DO NOT ADMIT IT under any circumstances, then you won't get in trouble. 

Just make sure there are no cameras covering her doorstep or those "smart doorbell" things and you should be good to go.

IF you HAVE to take action against NT's a combination of pretty harmless but weird and unsettling is the way to go.

IF you have money and are not too far away you could always pay me to do it. Ever since I conceived the idea, no one has given me an excuse to carry it out...

Forget using the law, they won't help you, and in fact will probably side with your neighbour if they get a sniff of "not right" about you like they usually do with us Aspies/Autists.

Although a private prosecution (if you have the stomach and persistence) in the small claims court CAN work IF you have a good representative. I've tried most of the ways I can think of of taking it to the NT's who pick on me since I was old enough to push back, and although nasty, they are usually turn out to be far less resourceful or determined to prevail than I am once I get properly engaged.

In fact my pacifism these days, is based on the fact that although I am rather good at pushing back, I don't like the guilt I feel (sometimes) when I see how weak the NT mind actually is. The guy I sued, (and sued, and sued, remorselessly and without mercy, just as he treated me) broke psychologically under the strain of fighting me, and is actually dead now.

We are not "weak", we are merely unsuited to their way of doing things which puts us at a HUGE disadvantage if we play the game they want us to, so don't do that.

USE your out of the box thinking skills if they want to mess with you, most of them have nothing of similar power, and will crumble quite quickly. Identify whatever power they have, and make sure you fight them in a way that invalidates that power.

I've even used extreme niceness and concern for my oppressors well being very successfully indeed on occasion, with people who genuinely got the wrong idea about me, and just needed to be brought to the realisation that I am not trying to offend,or take advantage, but for a depressingly large amount of NT's that is not enough sadly, so they have to be deterred by other means.

That's the reason that the Taliban or North Vietnamese regulars have been so successful against all comers. They don't fight as their enemies would like them to. I've been reading SunTzu's "art of war" recently, (It is mercifully short!) and there is a fair bit of good advice to be had in there.

Please, everyone who reads this, just stop taking their *** or it will NEVER END.