Who has been the most important person in your life?

i just never imagined u feeling alone u seem so switched on.

read these and see if it helps

2 articles on being lonely

https://zenhabits.net/lonely/

zenhabits.net/.../

Tough question as different people have been important at different times, and right now I feel really alone even though physically I'm not as I'm married with two children. 

Blair Mayne showed extreme bravely and Recklessness. He was suicidal ?

thats so sad Pikl

yes it does  ,,, it is scarey at times 

I get the part about self-reliance. There's never been anyone to help me the way I need help but me. Scares me sometimes.

He was lovely, not without his faults, of course. Broke my heart when he passed.

I relate to this alot.

aaaahhhhhhh u kept this secret    ----- OMG you must miss him a lot  he sounds such a nice guy

I really do miss him, he was funny and eccentric. An electronics design engineer who loved creating things. He would do anything for anybody, was always happy and a gentle soul.

He was my first love, and I was definitely a daddy's girl.

well You  hadnt told me that about your dad.

I am so pleased he was so positive and accepted you as you are,,,,   

I have learnt quite a bit from you Pikl 

I bet you miss your dad.

My Dad was, he taught me that my opinion was valid, but so too was everyone else's, even when they differed from my own. He taught me to always try and see things from the perspective of others.

He also accepted my quirks for being part of me, never judged and even loved how I was different. He passed away sadly nearly 4 years ago.

Currently,  the most important person to me is a friend. I can honestly say that without them, I wouldn't be here anymore. 

have you tried seeking out social skills training ?    there are some good courses that will help you improve

that is so sweet i am so happy you are happy ------   i have 2 sons and one daughter doing cancer research

oh wow ----  yes my mun taught me to be always be ready to be alone and to continue on.  The oddest thing is i have become more social in the last few weeks i have no idea what changed me. 

Most people are alone they just dont realise it. 

I am sorry to hear people hurt you.

I wish they hadn't. 

My son. It has been an honour and a privilege to be this wonderful human being's mum.

Me, unfortunately. Not in a narcissistic way, it's just that I'm the only one I've ever been able to rely on.

I have never had a proper friend or connected with anyone beyond a superficial level. I fundamentally don't understand human interaction. If I don't sort something out for myself then nobody else will, that's been the lesson I have learned the hard way again and again.

It is a lonely existence but on the other hand it's better than getting hurt by people.

My mum, who is autistic, is the most important person to me and i am going next weekend to see her and get her garden back in shape.

She raised me as non-autistic and encouraged me into everything which really helped me.

She came from a poor family. When she was young,  had hardly any clothes, she never had shoes, or piped water, and no electricity so she is a pretty tough person.

Her only way to get money for clothes was by smuggling