I was diagnosed with Aspergers earlier this year. The main thing which got me thinking about if I was on the spectrum was that I've always felt a bit "out of step" in conversations although from "coming out" to people no-one has ever really noticed apart from me. (Tania Marshall's comment on "missing a conversation gene" was what set it all off). From some comments by my assessor to a few things in my report, to analysing situations in a new light, it's got me thinking about how I process conversations.
It feels like it's very much a cognitive process to interact with other people. I seem to notice this more when I'm tired in that I struggle more to have conversations because there isn't enough room in my brain. Even when it's a bit of chit chat and not big in-depth questions, I still feel I need to "think" about what's being said and what I'm saying. But it happens so quickly myself or others don't notice it. Can anyone relate to this? When I've brought this idea up with a non-AS person they have said that they too have to think about things in conversations but I think it feels different for me but I cannot explain quite why. I haven't been able to find much on the internet other than a comment on an unrelated youtube video. I feel this also relates to why I think so much about conversations after they have happened - maybe at the time there were things which I didn't process.
Does anyone else feel that for them conversation is more cognitive rather than intuitive? I'm not saying non-AS people communicate solely on an intuitive basis, but perhaps it's more intuitive than cognitive. Whereas for people on the spectrum it's the other way round. Let's discuss....
