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My son's being schemed against at school. Any advice?

iain9abf

Hi,

I've got to attend an "emergency meeting" at my son's school which has just been arranged for tomorrow because of his disruptive behaviour and he's also made a few inappropriate and offensive comments.

However, his mum (they live in Dorset, I'm in London) told me this morning that there is a group of kids at his school who have been putting him into situations where he'll get into trouble, and they've also been sending hurtful messages to him over the weekend, like "autistic ***", "disabled", and other names. His mum told me that they've been trying to get him expelled from school.

Has anyone else been in a similar situation and, if so, what did they find was helpful?

I'm sure the school has their own policy on this kind of thing and the fact that his mum now has evidence of his being harassed and bullied should change the complexion of how they view his disruptive behaviour but I'd just like to go into the meeting with some helpful suggestions moving forward.

Many thanks Slight smile

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  • See what the school is like ,some will just blame you or try to blame him ,remember actions speak louder than words . I home school mine as mainstream was/ would destroy them.

  • in reply to mael

    Thanks for your reply mael.

    I haven't had too much direct experience with the school due to living 110 miles away. We had a zoom chat a few weeks ago though, about my son being defiant and aggressive, at home and their approach surprised me. Thy were quite pro-active and supportive, which I didn't expect. In my day I'd have had six of the best lol

    I'm hoping that they will be similarly supportive this time around, but I'll have my bases covered just in case. Thank you again for your reply, How do you find homeschooling yours? I'd imagine it must be challenging.

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  • in reply to mael

    Thanks for your reply mael.

    I haven't had too much direct experience with the school due to living 110 miles away. We had a zoom chat a few weeks ago though, about my son being defiant and aggressive, at home and their approach surprised me. Thy were quite pro-active and supportive, which I didn't expect. In my day I'd have had six of the best lol

    I'm hoping that they will be similarly supportive this time around, but I'll have my bases covered just in case. Thank you again for your reply, How do you find homeschooling yours? I'd imagine it must be challenging.

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