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Hi my son is now 20. Ignoring suggestions that my son was Autistic growing up (I thought the label was unhelpful) I now see that I failed him. He has no support and feels awkward and 'different' to everyone else. His mental health is now impacted and he is medicated for depression.

He has no motivation and is on course to quitting his 2 year of Uni (cyber security). He is highly intelligent and articulate.

He calls himself a pathological liar. I know he lies to protect him self, but it so difficult to believe anything he says and so difficult to know how to support him!

I think he needs someone to talk to.. psychological help but due to lack of diagnosis, I don't know where to turn.

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  • My Son was struggling at Uni too and spoke to someone at the start of his last year ....long story short he was assessed and realised he has Aspergers - it made so much sense to him and he did finish his degree albeit the last three months at home because of Covid.  It did help that he is degree was Psychology and they studied Autism so he began to realise that could tick many of the boxes.  Cyber Security is an amazing degree to do - I so hope he receives help and support from the Uni and can continue.

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  • My Son was struggling at Uni too and spoke to someone at the start of his last year ....long story short he was assessed and realised he has Aspergers - it made so much sense to him and he did finish his degree albeit the last three months at home because of Covid.  It did help that he is degree was Psychology and they studied Autism so he began to realise that could tick many of the boxes.  Cyber Security is an amazing degree to do - I so hope he receives help and support from the Uni and can continue.

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