I get the feeling that you've never met the 'super-professional' aspies that can do more and perform better than their peers. The true 'Mr Data' types.
There were 2 types of astronaut in the old days - the seat-of-the-pants test-pilot Alpha male - they survive on reactions. The others were the super-nerds who knew how to solve problems and do the right thing.
Have you ever met any other auties or aspies? Your views seem very limited.