Does anyone ever get angry, when you don't know, how other people are feeling, as in your best friend for example ??
I really want this friendship to work, I'm doing everything I can to make it work
Thank you
Lizzy.
Does anyone ever get angry, when you don't know, how other people are feeling, as in your best friend for example ??
I really want this friendship to work, I'm doing everything I can to make it work
Thank you
Lizzy.
Or perhaps it is just that so may NT continue to conceal most of their own ND tendencies. The world is full of every shade of humanity and inhumanity. Sure, it is good to be confident about our supposed superpowers, but they are not always with us, 24:7
See how you go. Quite a few of us get a bit angry, frustrated or just a bit confused by our best friends.
...but then, best friends are those that stick with us and in the long-term, that's really, really helpful.
i am studying Zen which is a bit like CBT. I practice everyday and it is changing me, my teamleader in work said i was changing
I'm going keep on working on it, but its easier said, than done I know.
Awwwww bless you, okay, no worries. Habits and behaviours are tricky to find a way to do differently.
well thats good. You are reflecting on your reactions and emotions which is a really good thing and if you keep doing that, you can change your behaviour.
I am not going to give you advice on friendship as I am pretty disastrous in that area myself LOL
I'm kind of still learning different stuff of how my autsuim
Ie like what have I just akwardly walk into for example aidie
aidie okay, I don't direct it at anyone else, I just get angry when I can't understand whats going on, it's hard to have faith at times.
I don't exactly put my questions correctly. Lol at.
I'm having faith, but it's difficult for me to keep at times. Lol at
If I her directly she answers, yes. But she very finicky at time.
She tends to retreat in her self, because, she dealing.
I'm patient with her, but it's difficult because, we have been friends for a while.
Running her shop and getting to talk is difficult, even more so soon, with whats about to happen concern her partner.
My partner used to get this with her best friend.
And I almost fell out with a very old friend at the start of this year.
What's helped for me is essentially having faith. If you've been together a long time, it's worth holding out a bit longer than you might normally be prepared to.
Is your friend relatively good at telling you what they're feeling if you ask them directly? As in if you ask: What are you feeling about this [X situation] ?