for all people suffering ,,,,,stop blaming others,,,,,,, zen

We humans can spend our life blaming other people , circumstances, or our bad luck and thinking about the way life should have been.

We can die that way if we want. That's our privilege, but it's not much fun.

We have to open up to the enormous game going on ( Life ),  that we're part of with all other humans, and species.

Until we see through the game that doesn't work ( blaming others ), we don't play the real game ( experience your life directly ).

Some people never see though it and die without ever having lived.

That's too bad.

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  • I find my reaction to this is very hostile.

    You may blame others but I don't.

  • this is a lesson is from a Zen expert.  its not my thoughts but I do agree with the lessons aim  to find  solutions by looking at me ( and not blaming others )

    this lesson ( paraphrased by me )  is not just for autistics but for all people.

    Its just that so many people seem to identify themselves by immediately hating Neurotypicals and blaming them for all sorts

    Zen lessons really hurt / hit home big time  because they are there to find the truth/reality for you.

    You are free to ignore everything I say ......  because I dont exist             

    lol

  • Look you two...

    IF you've had a nasty life full of mysterious adversity, (like some here clearly have) and you find that people really WERE treating you different to the NT majority, (they ain't going to get away with that shite any more with me!!) and they really HAVE been picking on you for a half century for no good reason, then holding NT's accountable for their actions, AKA "blaming" them is perfectly fair, and more relevant, a basic human coping mechanism. 

    O.K. Punishing them for their transgressions, alhough an attractive proposition, would be going a bit too far, but taking control, and unseating the adenochrome junkies currently in charge, and replacing them with real humans (whether Auties or not, I don;t care, we just need to have a less evilly structured society) needs to be done as a matter of some urgency, and the normies will always lack the courage of their convictions, (one of the major reasons they don't like us, we don't do groupthink)

    So, whilst I would definitely NOT ignore what such a productive and hard working member of this community says, Aidie, and I do respect that your post comes from an innate kindess and seeking of a correct life balance I am not sue that acceptance of my experience and attempting to find the solution in myself really is the winning plan, after fifty plus years of trying and  failing to make that work!

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