for all people suffering ,,,,,stop blaming others,,,,,,, zen

We humans can spend our life blaming other people , circumstances, or our bad luck and thinking about the way life should have been.

We can die that way if we want. That's our privilege, but it's not much fun.

We have to open up to the enormous game going on ( Life ),  that we're part of with all other humans, and species.

Until we see through the game that doesn't work ( blaming others ), we don't play the real game ( experience your life directly ).

Some people never see though it and die without ever having lived.

That's too bad.

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  • I don't blame other people, but I am frustrated at not having received the rules to this game of life, which the vast majority have. This unquestionably puts me at a disadvantage. I've spent a lifetime playing catch up & at pushing 50 I still don't really get it, but I'm improving. I can do no more than that. The trouble is when the NT world misunderstands & expects more. 

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  • I don't blame other people, but I am frustrated at not having received the rules to this game of life, which the vast majority have. This unquestionably puts me at a disadvantage. I've spent a lifetime playing catch up & at pushing 50 I still don't really get it, but I'm improving. I can do no more than that. The trouble is when the NT world misunderstands & expects more. 

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