for all people suffering ,,,,,stop blaming others,,,,,,, zen

We humans can spend our life blaming other people , circumstances, or our bad luck and thinking about the way life should have been.

We can die that way if we want. That's our privilege, but it's not much fun.

We have to open up to the enormous game going on ( Life ),  that we're part of with all other humans, and species.

Until we see through the game that doesn't work ( blaming others ), we don't play the real game ( experience your life directly ).

Some people never see though it and die without ever having lived.

That's too bad.

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  • I find it easy to avoid blaming others and myself by staying in the moment, anyway, how can we enjoy the moment if we’re not even in the moment?

    We all change, so if someone blames me, the fact in the moment I’m no longer the person who was blamed on. Living in the moment is so liberating and calm, you don’t find yourself in anxiety about the future or annoyed about something in the past, everything just comes and goes including blame.

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  • I find it easy to avoid blaming others and myself by staying in the moment, anyway, how can we enjoy the moment if we’re not even in the moment?

    We all change, so if someone blames me, the fact in the moment I’m no longer the person who was blamed on. Living in the moment is so liberating and calm, you don’t find yourself in anxiety about the future or annoyed about something in the past, everything just comes and goes including blame.

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