Hi all,
If you have seen my previous posts, you will be aware that my (undiagnosed) autistic husband has walked out on me at 22 weeks pregnant.
I have barely heard a word from him since he left, he has not asked about how baby or the pregnancy is but has said that no matter what he wants to be part of his life.
Obviously this will mean he will have visitation.
My worry is that he turns in to a rage monster at the slightest thing and with the unpredictability of a new baby, I really worry that this would cause the violent meltdowns he has had in the past. These have historically stemmed from a sock being lost, an interruption to his gaming, and the kitten making noise on a night which resulted in the kitten being thrown down the stairs.
Due to this I am terrified of allowing him to take our baby.
He is due to be diagnosed and start receiving support from August (the month baby is due).
Has anyone had any experience of support/therapy to help with such anger poblems? Does it work?
