Gettting a diagnosis

Hi, I'm a 16 yr old girl and have been thinking for over a year that I might be autistic. I dont know whether I am faking and I dont want to take space in a community that is not mine to take. I relate heavily to a lot of the signs but I dont want to tell my parents or get a diagnosis in case I am not autistic and then it seems as though I want attention. Is there any advice anyone could give on what I should do? Thank you :) 

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  • Only get a diagnosis if you have serious difficulties in your life and need to resolve them. A diagnosis will explain those difficulties and point to a way to resolve them. There are plenty of people who have autism and are not diagnosed and go about their lives fine. Its not trendy to be autistic. 

  • I think I partly agree with you, but at the same time, developing an autistic identity can be affirming for people - it certainly was for me. I now understand myself much better and with a diagnosis I can now get the support that I require in certain situations. If anything, my diagnosis has helped me appreciate who I am and explain some of  my differences.

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  • I think I partly agree with you, but at the same time, developing an autistic identity can be affirming for people - it certainly was for me. I now understand myself much better and with a diagnosis I can now get the support that I require in certain situations. If anything, my diagnosis has helped me appreciate who I am and explain some of  my differences.

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