Hi! I’m 19 and I basically struggled all my life with multiple things, specially the difficulty in creating and maintaining relationships. I always felt like I was broken. I thought I was borderline, bipolar and even a sociopath at some point because I barely have any empathy, which honestly kind of sucks. I got really, really depressed, got eating disorders and a couple of other things until finally, one day a found a youtube video talking about autism in girls and it finally clicked. I had everything the woman on the video was telling me about and I just started crying, it all made so much sense. I did a lot of research, focusing on autistic woman. The more I looked into it the more convinced I was. The fact that woman are usually diagnosed later, masking, special interests, stimming and literally every tiny thing I found out about it was fitting in more and more with me and all the struggled that I have.
Yet, the minute I got out of my little research utopia, I started noticing how the world doesn’t see it like that. My sister is a psychologist and I started noticing she constantly talks about how too many people are misdiagnosed with autism just so they can put them on meds and that a lot of them aren’t “autistic enough” or “don’t even look autistic, therefore they aren’t” and that made me really, really scared. I’ve been looking into getting a diagnosis but I’m terrified that the therapist will say I’m making everything up, even though I struggled so much with this my whole life. I’m scared they’ll say I’m “not autistic enough” ,mainly because I’ve been heavily relying on masking for a really long time, and send me away. If that happens I don’t think I’ll ever have the courage to talk to a therapist again. Do any of you have some kind of advice? Please I’m desperate.
Thank you so much