Friends

So this is difficult for me to talk about. I have only ever had a few friends. However, now they have all moved on and have told me that they don't want to know me anymore because they feel I will stop them from having a good life. I don't know what to do anymore. It's just one bad thing after another.

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DaveAsperg over 4 years ago

Don’t regret and do look at now and how to build your future.

join clubs, look for opportunities for development at work and social situations
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Katrina over 4 years ago in reply to DaveAsperg

Trouble is I don't know how to be social
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Plastic over 4 years ago in reply to Katrina

When you find the right people, it will come naturally. It's all about anxiety and panicking about what to say - so with the right people, you won't feel that pressure. Being in the same room and each doing your own thing is often just as good as a conversation.

I believe auries/aspies can learn a lot from dogs or cows - dogs have very strict rules about behaviour and they crave calmness so they can be 'off duty' and cows are quietly social - they just like being around things that are predictable - just like us.
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Plastic over 4 years ago in reply to Katrina

When you find the right people, it will come naturally. It's all about anxiety and panicking about what to say - so with the right people, you won't feel that pressure. Being in the same room and each doing your own thing is often just as good as a conversation.

I believe auries/aspies can learn a lot from dogs or cows - dogs have very strict rules about behaviour and they crave calmness so they can be 'off duty' and cows are quietly social - they just like being around things that are predictable - just like us.
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