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People, people, people

hohner

People are trouble, meeting with people is hell, talking to people exhausting.

Any thoughts on how to engage with people without fear, stress and anxiety. ? I seem to think that something is going to happen to me. A simple meeting in time,, an appointment has me up the wall, stressed. It is as if they have control of my life,, and I therefore can not move, run or fight. I see people as hell, animals and demons.              :(( Does any else hate the world and people, especially groups of people.

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    I'm with you Easy - people react to and avoid bad vibes/negative body language. I find I get much more out of people by being open and friendly, infact I'm renowned for being a "happy smilely friendly" person (if only they knew!) But happy friendly smiley usually gets a similar response which in turn makes me feel good and makes it easier to deal with people. 

    An example of this - I have a friend who has spent his whole life at odds with the world, but for immaterial reasons has recently changed his attitude and outlook and his body language/vibes reflects this. Now when he walks into a pub he's no longer billy- no -mates-leave me alone. People chat to him, ladies chat him up, in short he's no longer the scary ogre but an approachable friendly guy. And he says he's wasted so much of his life hating and being hated, yet simple changes have made such a huge difference to it.

    All his various issues are still present but he's looking at things from a more positive perspective and the world reacts in a positive way to that which in turn makes him more positive - am I making any sense....?!

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  • Anonymous
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    I'm with you Easy - people react to and avoid bad vibes/negative body language. I find I get much more out of people by being open and friendly, infact I'm renowned for being a "happy smilely friendly" person (if only they knew!) But happy friendly smiley usually gets a similar response which in turn makes me feel good and makes it easier to deal with people. 

    An example of this - I have a friend who has spent his whole life at odds with the world, but for immaterial reasons has recently changed his attitude and outlook and his body language/vibes reflects this. Now when he walks into a pub he's no longer billy- no -mates-leave me alone. People chat to him, ladies chat him up, in short he's no longer the scary ogre but an approachable friendly guy. And he says he's wasted so much of his life hating and being hated, yet simple changes have made such a huge difference to it.

    All his various issues are still present but he's looking at things from a more positive perspective and the world reacts in a positive way to that which in turn makes him more positive - am I making any sense....?!

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