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Aspergers and negativity

Ellie b

Everything i have pushed myself with iv had negative experience coz of people not taking the time to understand my aspergers and what traits I have I told them what I can't handle put me in panicky states and meltdown situations why I can't succeed with anything just judge me tell me i can't cope take the f****** P*** simply pay attention to what I say then u get it no one listen to me make me so angry cause explosion causing me to give up on myself no one wants to know. 

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  • Ellie B, I am and have been in the situation as you. I am now receiving help. Norfolk seems to be behind the rest of the country in assisting, supporting and understanding autism and mental health. I have been mistreated in multiple workplaces because of my autism and had the exact same issues you have described.

    Are you currently unemployed ? if you are unemployed then i suggest you contact norfolk county council or Norwich Council and request a needs assessments. The local authority can not deny someone a needs assessment. A social worker will come to you arrange an initial assessment where you can discuss your issues and they will work with you and sign post you to organization to help with benefits, help you find suitable employment opportunities and can even arrange college with extra support and if there is need help with housing.

    It's not you, it's the general attitude of people who live in norfolk, people's attitudes get worse the more you head towards south norfolk and breckland districts. Norfolk has recently in the last few months now gotten adult adhd service and social services have now got specialist social workers that work with people with autism. 

  • in reply to Blue

    U have been helpful thank u I don't feel alone now in this experience coz amount times been took advantage my anxiety is out of control so I can't work anyway this is down to consequences not listening what traits I have if they learnt to understand and have patience things could of been very different x

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  • in reply to Blue

    U have been helpful thank u I don't feel alone now in this experience coz amount times been took advantage my anxiety is out of control so I can't work anyway this is down to consequences not listening what traits I have if they learnt to understand and have patience things could of been very different x

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