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Aspergers and Danger

Ellie b

I have got to say this one big disadvantage to having autism u can put urself in dangerous uncomfortable situations when u dont know what danger signs are or what to look for in men showing there not right im the nicest kindest supportive person u would ever meet but im thinking its just getting me took advantage of but dont know how i just know that i have a bad gut feeling. For example at high school i got told was a teachers pet coz i kept getting appraisel for my work was bigging me up to say could go to art college turns out he was a peodophile. Another occasion got with my partner almost 6 years ago now his mum is mentally ill she get involved with dangerous men her latest boyfriend is a peodophile me and my fiance had to move to our own place to feel safe cut all contact from her so she dont make me ill. Now i get on with my fiance dad helped him through when suicidal told him i understand him coz he has autistic traits but now his making me feel uncomfortable he said il give u a big cuddle would u like that x ur a really good friend xx u want to feel honoured i never trust anyone outside my family x when he hugged me coz im struggling not seeing my family i let go but he wouldnt and bought me a birthday present which was expensive with a card. Now am i misunderstanding or is there something going on im scared and feel cross with myself for being so caring but thats just me.

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  • yes u appear to be a very nice person and indeed prey for some nasties out there

    who are u uncomfortable with ? 

    and why ?

  • in reply to aidie

    My fiance dad his been there for support and i have for him his 60 and he has autistic traits why we r close we both love old fashioned comedy only fools and horses and that but now his sending me messages that suddenly made me have that unpleasant feeling bk. For example he know i feel suicidal he put i give u a big cuddlex would u like that ?x U should feel honored i dont trust anyone putside family shows im fond of u x I value ur opinion ur a really good friend asked for advice on his love life he hugged me and wouldnt let go.

  • in reply to Ellie b

    ok it does feel a bit odd.

    but he hasnt touched u. it's all text right ? if yes store them somewhere.

    show them to your fiancé 

    it is his dad ! ask him does he do this to everyone ? 

    Maybe his English /texting is not good !

    he could be just trying to help u so play it cool dont over react at this stage.

    if u are feeling suicidal ring the Samaritans. Its ok to have suicidal thoughts sometimes, I do, and I let them pass by like a car on the road.

    if u get more texts like the ones we are discussing come back on here again and we'll work from there.

    Always mention if things make u uncomfortable. 

    So talk to your fiancé  about this he has to answer the questions above.

    BTW please refer to him as your "future father-in-law" because that who he is going to be.

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