Girlfriend with autism is struggling with sensory overload, need help

Hello.

My girlfriend was diagnosed with autism in the last few years. She didn't struggle too much other than socially and with her intense focus on her interests, so she is considered high-functioning. But lately, she has been getting sensory overloaded more and more and we both don't know where to begin in calming her down, and she doesn't go to a therapist at the moment.

She recently asked me to help her "make a plan" to try to calm her down when she gets this way, but genuinely I don't know much of what to do for an adult, even after a while of research.

I know she has said she is especially sensitive to temperature change, bright light, and loud sound/too many sounds at once. What can I do for those things? 

Feel free to ask for more info if there's anything I left out that you need. I really want to help her and I hate seeing her so defenseless to her breakdowns, so thank you all for your help in advance. 

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  • For problems with temperature change I was going to suggest encouraging her to wear layers of clothing so that she can easily and discreetly remove or add layers when she needs to. She could always carry a soft, good quality, light wool (cashmere?) shawl which would feel lovely and could look beautiful. Good present for her if you need one. Uniqlo do those amazing super warm and pack down very small 'Ultra Light Down Vests/Jackets/Coats'. I always carry one when I travel.

    Good luck. It is very thoughtful of you to seek help and support for her.