How to have a romantic relationship if you can't flirt/ read between the lines??

I am a very recently diagnosed 22 year old woman and I really want to be in a romantic relationship (I know that sounds very sad and desperate!!). I have had a boyfriend in my teens but we were more like friends. I feel like I can never truly be happy until I am in a relationship/ have a family, which is a very negative way to think, I know, but many of my NT friends have boyfriends/ girlfriends and I feel unaccomplished compared to them.

But I'm afraid that I can never initiate a romantic relationship because I have no idea what flirting is and what the difference is between flirting and making friends. I also know that reading between the lines is important when you're trying to form a romantic relationship... how do people on the spectrum navigate that? 

I would be extremely grateful if any of you could please provide any tips on dating/ forming deep, romantic connections with people!! Many thanks :)

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  • Hello,

    yes, I too struggle to understand flirting and have missed so many attempts to gain my attention. It always helps if you can find someone you share an interest with. That would make it easy to meet up and take things from there. Start off as friends and see how it feels. I would like to meet someone but social opertunites are somewhat limited at present for all of us. I wish you luck in your search. 

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  • Hello,

    yes, I too struggle to understand flirting and have missed so many attempts to gain my attention. It always helps if you can find someone you share an interest with. That would make it easy to meet up and take things from there. Start off as friends and see how it feels. I would like to meet someone but social opertunites are somewhat limited at present for all of us. I wish you luck in your search. 

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