Is it fair for parents to shout at you?

yes, sometimes,  what did u do wrong ? parents get angry because they are stressed just like you, ure mum is human too. 

what did u do wrong ?  is ur mum autistic ?  mine is ( un- diagnosed of course )

Well, my mum want's me to do stuff like clean and stuff the way she does it, But I tend to do stuff my own way as everyone else does. She says I'm lazy and don't help. I have ADD and i can be slow and for me, I only help someone if they ask for help. So far no, she shows no signs of autism, anger management yes

are u earning money for the household ?

Aww why thank you 

u are such a nice guy. talk again.  

Thank you I really appreciate it. Yeah, we have talked about my mum having autism and disabilities, so far OCD is the only one we agree she has. Thank you so much for your words. It really has helped me out a lot. But the other thing is, She has applied for benefits but has be refused, When I was born I was born a section and the doctors done something to her stomach, So she worries about money I understand, and I have helped out a few times, But other than that, everything is decent 

Thank you I really appreciate it. Yeah, we have talked about my mum having autism and disabilities, so far OCD is the only one we agree she has. Thank you so much for your words. It really has helped me out a lot. But the other thing is, She has applied for benefits but has be refused, When I was born I was born a section and the doctors done something to her stomach, So she worries about money I understand, and I have helped out a few times, But other than that, everything is decent 

Aww why thank you 

u are such a nice guy. talk again.