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My family successfully ruined my life

Roswell

He has bullied me throughout my life. Ruined my confidence and self esteem. I tried living independently but the damage was too much. I'm back with him and my mum now. When my mum goes out shopping and I can't cope going with her I'm stuck with him. And he starts being nastier, because he knows no one's there. I went out today and drank a bottle of wine because I felt so depressed being stuck with him. Then I sat by the sea, just looking out. Some busybody called the police and I got apprehended by them. They became convinced I was a danger to myself, they are being overcautious. Just because the sea can drown people and someone's sitting near it drinking a big bottle of wine, they automatically assume I'm going to do that. So now they brought me back home and told my parents to call them if I leave the house. Sounds like a bloody police state! And still my dad plays the innocent one, always gets away with it, whenever anyone like the police come, he always is ever so nice. 

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  • Roswell, how old are you? If you're an adult and have your own mobile phone, the next time your Mum goes out and you suspect you will be subject to this verbal abuse. Put your phone on to voice recorder and keep it in your pocket. Record everything "he" says. Save it as a file on your phone and make a copy on a USB if you can. Do this several times over as long a period of time as you can. 

    Once you have all the evidence you need, take it to the Police, because yes it is a police state, and they are here to help if you use them correctly. Don't give up your evidence without making sure you have a copy and the police give you some sort of receipt.

    I think this will really help you. It gives you some control and a possible way out in the future.

    Good luck 

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  • Roswell, how old are you? If you're an adult and have your own mobile phone, the next time your Mum goes out and you suspect you will be subject to this verbal abuse. Put your phone on to voice recorder and keep it in your pocket. Record everything "he" says. Save it as a file on your phone and make a copy on a USB if you can. Do this several times over as long a period of time as you can. 

    Once you have all the evidence you need, take it to the Police, because yes it is a police state, and they are here to help if you use them correctly. Don't give up your evidence without making sure you have a copy and the police give you some sort of receipt.

    I think this will really help you. It gives you some control and a possible way out in the future.

    Good luck 

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