My family successfully ruined my life

He has bullied me throughout my life. Ruined my confidence and self esteem. I tried living independently but the damage was too much. I'm back with him and my mum now. When my mum goes out shopping and I can't cope going with her I'm stuck with him. And he starts being nastier, because he knows no one's there. I went out today and drank a bottle of wine because I felt so depressed being stuck with him. Then I sat by the sea, just looking out. Some busybody called the police and I got apprehended by them. They became convinced I was a danger to myself, they are being overcautious. Just because the sea can drown people and someone's sitting near it drinking a big bottle of wine, they automatically assume I'm going to do that. So now they brought me back home and told my parents to call them if I leave the house. Sounds like a bloody police state! And still my dad plays the innocent one, always gets away with it, whenever anyone like the police come, he always is ever so nice. 

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  • I think we are both in a bad place Roswell, and the bloody police have made it terrible for me. We Aspies are easy meat for them to kick around. Hang on in there pal. 
    They used a scam to prosecute me and we Aspies fall for scams frequently.

    which county are you in?

  • I'm right on the edge of Merseyside, near Lancashire. It used to be Lancashire here but it changed in the '70s. This is a Victorian seaside resort town. A fear I have is that I could be locked up and medicated against my will and become a shell of my former self, and forgotten about. I have seen that happen to other people. I don't believe it will happen to me but it could, the fear is always there. 

    And as you say there are always people out with scams. 

  • We both need a good ambition which we can work on th achieve with success. There are loads more with mental health issues now and beds are not readily given. Fear is part of the aspie thing , but is very real

    Blue carVisited Blackpool and Lytham earlier in the year en route to Scotland. Blackpool suffering with Covid.

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  • We both need a good ambition which we can work on th achieve with success. There are loads more with mental health issues now and beds are not readily given. Fear is part of the aspie thing , but is very real

    Blue carVisited Blackpool and Lytham earlier in the year en route to Scotland. Blackpool suffering with Covid.

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