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Light bulb moment

NAS68600

After googling and reading this I need to know where to go next. I am presuming talk to GP for support but I’m not sure.

I have just read the story of autistic partner.

https://www.autism.org.uk/about/family-life/partners/comfort.aspx

And to be honest it’s both of us?? I recognise those traits in both me and my husband reading this and also our parents.

Have a son with Aspergers that was diagnosed properly 4 years ago. Police were called out again to settle argument that was escalating again yesterday. It’s at least every six months for one thing or another. My boy is 16 and it’s getting really hard to de escalate incidences in general between all of us at one time or another.

 I have often thought hubby has it but now reading this I think I might also have it. For years I just thought oh that’s the way he is and gave up trying to change things and went a bit mental using alcohol as a husband filter / Things stop bothering me as much. I am glad to say I no longer have this crutch I have been completely sober for sometime now but the more time goes on the more stuff I am seeing it’s opened my eyes again. I always thought I was just a private person lol.

Anyway I’m waffling guess that’s my day planned researching stuff. Would be Grateful for any advice or similar experiences.

Thank you Blush

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  • NAS68600 said:

    Have a son with Aspergers that was diagnosed properly 4 years ago. Police were called out again to settle argument that was escalating again yesterday. It’s at least every six months for one thing or another. My boy is 16 and it’s getting really hard to de escalate incidences in general between all of us at one time or another.

    Sorry to hear that, the best thing you can do is be more subtle in your approach and teach him to do the same. He can conquer his illness and make it have less of a hold on him. I am mentally ill but it does not have much of an effect on me or how i think. I believe your son can do the same. 

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  • NAS68600 said:

    Have a son with Aspergers that was diagnosed properly 4 years ago. Police were called out again to settle argument that was escalating again yesterday. It’s at least every six months for one thing or another. My boy is 16 and it’s getting really hard to de escalate incidences in general between all of us at one time or another.

    Sorry to hear that, the best thing you can do is be more subtle in your approach and teach him to do the same. He can conquer his illness and make it have less of a hold on him. I am mentally ill but it does not have much of an effect on me or how i think. I believe your son can do the same. 

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