Published on 12, July, 2020
I've been banned from a few forums in my lifetime (Mumsnet, for example).
Every time has shocked and upset me.
People assume I'm a troll and I'm left with that familiar feeling: "I don't understand what I've done wrong; am I living in a parallel universe to everyone else?"
The rejection stings and baffles me.
Does this happen to anyone else?
Happens to me also. The only thing we can do is press on and try another website.
Going to need it with my levels of insanity. I've spent the last 48 hrs alienating her in different ways. Not helped by the arrival of a third woman. Facebook!
I can relate.....but also to in person situations more so....Ie....the day to day interactions!
Ive now had one of my lesbian neighbours verbally attack me 1 week ago infront of many people....
Long story...But ive LITERALLY done nothing wrong and even her partner and son who was there(i think hes in his 30s) even told her to apologise..
Im convinced i give off some kind of negative vibe to certain people......its bizarre!.....it makes me second guess myself for weeks....but i know totally , im not in the wrong, yet somehow i receive very harsh attacks...
Good luck :D
No not for me. This is the only online platform I use so I've never been banned before. I mostly stay away from online forums and social media because most sites like those are just full of immature children and adults who use the privacy of the internet to act out and intentionally hurt others, which has put me off of such sites.
I haven't been banned on a forum as I don't use them.
Nearly all the drama in my Nt Social groups was caused by women being bitchy. If it was just blokes i'd still being scratching my *** having beers with them all now. That's not all that women are though of course. They have also have loads of positive things about them.
You're right then it's very different! haha. You only have to see the cultural stigma associated with being a strange man to know that it would be different. I'm chatting up an ASD woman now and she's nothing like me. Successful, three degrees, also never had a problem attracting mates.
I grew up with sisters, three of whom were teenagers at the same time. I can confidently, yet quietly, corroborate what you have stated lol.
It's probably 'easier' being an ASD woman, given that we seem to mask more efficiently. Also I've had no problem getting partners as a heterosexual ASD woman. In fact, men seem to like my Autistic quirks.
A lot women aren't fans of other women. Despite the official sisterhood and all that jazz. Something i've noticed. Of course the same could be said of the relationships between men (safely digs self out of hole). I have no idea what it's like to be an ASD woman. So possibly you could illuminate me.
Oh I love the word disputatious! A new word for me :) I too am disputatious, but I'm not sure that's precisely what angered the folk on Mumsnet. It's like they didn't believe what I said was true. Or they picked apart my wording, focusing on phrases and style rather than content.
Shame it got deleted. It would have been an interesting read. But no, it certainly was not me.
I am banned from a few places. My honesty and disputatious nature does for me. The inability to mask.
That person was a troll - and they had a very offensive public self-destruction so the thread got deleted.
I can't recall doing that. I've searched this forum for the word 'mumsnet' and the only post that's mine is this one.
Yep - I always get banned!
It is because NTs have had their entire reality hacked - since about 2012... That's when the internet took a nose dive. The best days of the web were before that time which is about when the AI algorithm bias took over.
Have you been here before? We had a thread a few months ago that read exactly like this........ Even mentioning getting kicked off mumsnet.......
BTW - I'm Aspie with eidetic memory.......