negative circuit thinking

Hello everyone! Recently I noticed that a coworker who I care a lot has Aspergers. We did not talk about it and probably won't. I totally respect and admire his work. He’s a middle age man and we had a trouble with our boss. I really want to find a solution for us in order to finish the project we are involved with, a project that is very important for both of us. He’s “stuck” in some kind of a negative “circuit”, maybe a little paranoid. I do not understand completely what happened between him and our boss, he does not tell me the whole story. He seems to be in a kamikaze process, and I do not know what to do or to say in order to move forward. I wonder if you have some clues on how I can cope with that. :)

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  • Hello 

    Yes - tell him you really care and how you’d feel if it went pair shaped. He’ll likely have no clue that you even give a dam! 

    I’ve been there in work multiple times and never had support like you. It’s usually other way round - who I thought did care ended up brown nosing the boss to stay in the ‘gang’ :( 

    NTs almost ALWAYS drop someone to stay in the group. 

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  • Hello 

    Yes - tell him you really care and how you’d feel if it went pair shaped. He’ll likely have no clue that you even give a dam! 

    I’ve been there in work multiple times and never had support like you. It’s usually other way round - who I thought did care ended up brown nosing the boss to stay in the ‘gang’ :( 

    NTs almost ALWAYS drop someone to stay in the group. 

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